Zanzibar is Very Far

If traveling through Africa was a contact sport, my travel group relay team would win. There were so many different modes of transportation all back to back to back to back that went into the epic adventure that led us to the island of Zanzibar in Tanzania The first leg of the travels meant hitch hiking as a group of 4 to a completely separate country, very unpredictable and requires us to be at the complete mercy to whoever passes by. This first stop was to Zambia. After getting a ride with a nice man from Uganda who brought us all the way to the Zambian border, we hopped on a 10 hour overnight bus, which was a piece of cake compared to the next part. This is not the opinion of the one person in our travel group responsible for demanding the bus to stop for a bathroom emergency. Next was the 48 hour train ride, where water ran out in the first 12 hours. The train compartment fit 6 people with 3 beds stacked on top of each other. It turned into a test of how comfortable you can be with your own odor and 5 other people's odor when crammed into a room right in the middle of African summer. It was a tough call, but I had to choose hydrating myself instead of proper teeth hygiene with the limited water I brought on-board (as again, the train was out of water!). I was approximately 5 hours off from putting a bag over my head out of pure disgust with myself, I will not even get into the questionable rashes all of us picked up from the train beds. After all this we arrived in Dar Se Lam, the capital of Tanzania, and paid our ferry fee for the last mode of transport before paradise. Even after living my entire life 10 minutes from the ocean, I still got sea sickness on this ferry. But it didn't matter at that point because after 6 straight days of travel, we had arrived in ZANZIBAR.

The travels were not actually all that bad, I would say 80% of it was pure adventure and fun times. Each day on the train we were woken up by little Zambian/Tanzanian kids (depending on which country we were in at that moment) saying "mango, mango, mango" through our train window and us just buying breakfast like it was a fast food take out window...from our beds. All the ridiculousness of getting lost, constantly switching and exchanging 4 different currencies (yes, 4!), being so deliriously tired that everything is hilarious and feeling like I really traveled and saw southern/central Africa made getting to Zanzibar a trip all in itself.

I have never been to a tropical destination where I can spend the afternoon buying fruity drinks on the beach while a nice woman decorates my hand with henna tattoo, and then when I feel hungry I go to a hut right up from the beach with a sign "Mama Africa" and order my food of choice, the traditional porridge of course. Our very first night in Zanzibar we ran into people who invited us out on their boat and we were like..."um...let me think about that...OK YES". All of a sudden we find ourselves right out in the Indian ocean, far off the shore where a small boat brought us to a bigger boat where clearly people had been partying all afternoon. I think I caught a little glimpse of how P. Diddy lives. It was fabulous and we even were on the boat with other Peace Corps Volunteers from Zambia. We were served tasty Tanzanian beer and goat testicles, which were surprisingly phenomenal...would eat again for sure. I rang in the New Year with Peace Corps friends.

Oh, and we saw Victoria Falls in Zambia on the way! One of the 7 Wonder of the World:

The rest of the trip was spent eating fantastic seafood, laying out by the beach, snorkeling, seeing all the sights and more or less living the complete opposite life of a Peace Corps Volunteer. This vast difference makes the return back to the village all the more difficult. I have said this and felt this way since being here, any amount more than 2 days spent outside the village makes it so hard to come back. Not because I don’t like Kayanga and the people here, but because I am only human and I prefer things like...drinking cold water, not peeing in a bucket, and blah blah blah. Also, I normally come back to situation that a Namibian would think of as normal but I initially perceive as an extreme dilemma; flooding, termites, snakes, new big holes, and blah blah blah. After getting both bombarded and blessed by too so many meme's (what we call older women in the village), formal greetings to all the elder men, and fun hugs to the little kids, I was informed that the roof to my new classroom came off in a storm. This is a..problem...but fixable, and not to sound selfish but I am glad it wasn’t my own hut. I know I would have started crying right then and there if my own hut was destroyed. I have become very attached to my hut. It's the first place I have been able to take full ownership of. The more relevant problem they informed me of pertained to my clean water source, which was no more. Borehole:broken. This means walking the extra 40 minutes walking to and from the river, and technically after lugging that water back I have to wait 2 days before I can drink it in order for the parasites to die. Slap in the face from going from luxurious private bungalow with fresh papaya and pineapple served to us every morning, to trying to avoid the schistosomiasis parasite. I am a creature of habit and got way too used to living it up with my fellow Peace Corps Volunteers, who I will still be friends with when I'm 80, but now it's back to reality. It will take a couple weeks to adjust again but I got this, I am almost half done with my service and feel strong!

Merry Christmas from Namibia

This is my last post before the holidays, as I will be without internet and leaving SO soon for my big December holiday to Zanzibar, Tanzania. Even though the trip will probably be once in a lifetime; hitch hiking across southern Africa with great friends I have made here and a 48 hour train ride (one way) makes getting there an adventure in itself...there are still so many things I will miss at home in Rhode Island. Merry Early Christmas to everyone at home!

last year's Christmas dinner

last years Christmas, waiting 2 days before xmas to get the tree, in the pouring rain

strategically photographing dad because he didnt want his bum leg in a cast to show

inseparable VanHerwarde Girls

Little glimpse at the trip I will be taking. The train goes so slowly that you can buy fruit out of the windows!

World AIDS Day

       2011. Getting to Zero. That was this years theme, goal, message and expectation for World AIDS Day. Zero new HIV infections, zero AIDS related deaths and zero discrimination. It is a tall order and the bar for success is now set very high. World wide how do we actually implement this mentality? In Kayanga, a small village that doesn't even make it on Google maps, took a small step towards this goal. It was an entire community involvement, one that I was not able to fully see until I took a step back.

       The night before the event I watched as the woman's group practiced their drama and songs outside the church, the woman in charge of cooking were off to the far right, all in a line carrying water back in preparation for the next days cooking, and then the men and I caring to the cow. I witnessed from start to finish how they prepare beef, village style. I won't go into details in case it grosses people out or in case PETA stumbles across this blog, but I ended the night with my friend Peggy cooking our noodles in my kitchen hut while an ENTIRE cut up cow was lying next to us on an tin plate they use for some roofs just chilling right in my kitchen. It was placed on aluminium sheet and the raw meat was still pulsing from the cow having been killed an hour before. 

       The day's program went off without any big glitches. The day showcased the great skills from the dance group, pre-primary kids singing traditional songs, Catholic woman's choir busting out not only song and dance, but a theatrical performance, and then the girl's group brought to life some of the the biggest drivers of the HIV epidemic through skits. Speeches from the headman, the HIV counselor and people from New Start Clinic brought motivation and high expectations to increase HIV testing in the area and reducing deaths due to AIDS. We were able to bring testing directly to the people, something that is not normally done without proper refrigeration/electricity. The testing crew brought enough supplies for close to 50 tests but had to go get more when almost 200 people were lined to get tested. That is an insane number for one day, in one village, in a semi-public setting. Even more important is not necessarily the quantity of people but that men, young, men were getting standing in line getting tested among the older men and woman, both young and old.

        The day ended with a meal of porridge and beef that fed all that attended, face painting with wonderful friends that helped out, a raffle that people went nuts over, the ceremonial hand off of the cow head to the headman, a phenomenal dance circle to some great Namibian jams, and an AIDS mural that made for a well rounded day. It may seem like the highlight of this event was the number of people that found out their status, but what also was a big deal were the youth, that were such an integral part of the program, got a chance got to express themselves through song, dance, and drama. I hope the community as a whole got a little push to raise the bar and to that the event gave kids an essential confidence boost, which is a form of HIV prevention in itself.

Kadiko Yuva (I DONT UNDERSTAND!)

        Nine months in and I just bought a second pillow! This is a really lame thing to blog about. But to me the pillow shows actual investment in living here, making my life comfortable and really doing this. If the year long application/waiting process, saying goodbye to everyone I know for 2 years, the 27 hour plane ride, the 2 month training and tackling language barriers to form friendships wasn’t enough commitment, this did it in. Also, my bed it terribly uncomfortable—ever since the one time I got food poisoning and literally spend 24 straight hours not moving in bed (only shifting to puke) it left a very distinct and irreversible dip in my cheap thin mattress. I call it my taco bed.

          At 9 months in I assumed I would be fluent in Thimbukushu, or at least close to it. This was a stupid expectation since I was pretty bad at languages in high school. I have certainly progressed from when I first arrived…all the embarrassing mix-ups I had that I am sure people laughed about behind my back…in a loving way. For example; announcing I had ‘diarrhea’ instead of a simple ‘stomach ache’ to a group of giggly teenagers is cringe worthy, or how for a whole week I yelled at the pre-primary kids to ‘SPINACH SPINACH’ instead of the more appropriate, ‘LISTEN LISTEN’. (traditional spinach is mutete/listen is muterere). I do alright now with the language, just alright. I am used to not knowing what is going on with conversations, but when I feel most left out is when I am around girls my own age. The opportunity for friendship is there, but I am only able to just brush the surface of topics. Someone who has been in a situation similar to mine put it nicely with language barriers, you miss being able to have fun and be spontaneous when speaking and conversing (shout out Mrs. McNamera!). I don’t understand jokes made, I can’t make my own jokes or discuss complex thoughts/observations. It is why when I meet up with other volunteers and I get overwhelmed by how much I want to say so it all comes out in very jumbled thoughts.

Instead of talking with the girls my age, I join them for netball. Netball is played a little like basketball, without the dribbling and you can only take three steps at a time. You may think that this would be great way to bond with people, similar to my dance group where no language needed when playing. But netball is weird and I don’t really understand the rules. When they yell instructions at me in Thimbukushu (and they yell) I would almost just rather watch. They won't let me just watch though, which is good and bad. I want to tell them that I used to be good at sports, but I don’t think they would believe me because even I know I look very awkward out there. However, I will persevere and I will continue to embarrass myself! Last week I made a basket and both teams cheered, but only because the previous 45 minutes I kept messing up.

Here are the people in Namibia I can rely on to understand me when I talk at warp speed, no translators needed...

dancin' fools

I have totally not given enough attention to the kids in my dance group. This is the group my friend, Peggy, and I started in my village. Peggy lives 15 km away and gets a ride in once a week to help teach the class. We have a big performance coming up for World AIDS Day on December 3rd and I don’t know who is more nervous, me or the kids! Even though dancing is supposed to be a free-spirited, stress reliever activity, it was still difficult getting them out of their shell. There was a period  when week after week Peggy and I would wonder "how have we been practicing this for months and they still look uncomfortable with it?!" I guess even though they can move their shoulders and hips like lil African Shakiras to the beat of the drum, it’s different when it’s choreographed group dance steps. Below is the church that the priest let's us practice in sometimes. 

A performance of my dance kids using the shetenge clothes as dancing prompts!

But as of last week I was so proud! They are ready for the big performance and I think Peggy and I are performing with them for one of the dances ...I am counting on looking like a fool. It’s really fun seeing the kids excited about something, all eyes will be on them doing something they have worked hard on. The event will include multiple groups performing: a drama; songs; and dances. I am even having the lil youngsters from the kindergarten sing both Thimbukushu songs and English songs. The only English song they know without any prompting from me is "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star", which of course has no relevance to AIDS but is precious none-the-less. I never want those kids to leave me and go to grade 1! There is a lot of pressure for the event because the headman in attending along with the majority of the village. The cow we are slaughtering should feed hundreds, so I hope the event will be legitimate. We will also be having HIV testing going on all day on site, the first time ever testing will be brought to the village. We hope this will increase testing numbers since it is a very far walk to get tested at the hospital. I am nervous and forgot what this type of pressure felt like...its been a while. Will post pics after the event!

Gobble Gobble

It's hard to pinpoint what I want to write about this time because there are always so many different directions to go. Let's start with Thanksgiving, First major holiday I have had to spend alone (sorry 4th of July, I totally forgot about you). The weekend before the actual day I had some pretty stellar replacements to keep me company, but certainly missed the usual crowd back home. We bought an expensive turkey (apparently shipped from Brazil?) that made it's way into our shopping town's grocery store, stuffing from America, and other goodies in between. But, just to remind us that it was definitely not a American thanksgiving, below is a picture from the a herd of hippos out in the river.

The view of hippos from the window

The actual night of Thanksgiving was much different. I went to bed without dinner because of more pressing matters. I have already done a snake entry so I won't be too long on this but this time it was way scarier! The mamba (it was a mamba this time!!) in my room and it came out from under my bed WHILE I was sitting on my floor making friendship bracelets. I was a straight damsel in distress, screaming and I even flailed my arms a little. A group of men came and took over the situation while I texted all my volunteer friends describing my very un-American Thanksgiving night.

The long anticipated rainy season is what is bringing out all the snakes. They seek shelter in my hut to escape the rain, while I seek shelter under my mosquito net. The net has been my savior, along with my rain-turned-snake-boots my mom bought me from Marshalls right before I left. Mom, they have been useful in a way we didn't quite predict. Every night from 7:30 pm onward, I literally cocoon myself under the net to prevent getting attacked by 8 different species of scary insects. The one positive thing the change in season has brought is the urgent need for the men to finish my classroom. As of this post, it's done! No more teaching under a tree with school attendance dependent on the weather. Only 5 months late, but considering the construction man was only working for a bowl of soft porridge a day I say its OK and pretty amazing the work it took.

Cultural Differences

A recent conversation between me and Dongo, my counterpart...

Dongo: What did you eat for dinner?

   Me: I had eggs.

Dongo: Just eggs?? But how are you getting fat with just eggs?

   Me: Are you saying I am getting fat?

Dongo: Yes.

   Me: Dongo, how many times have I told you I find that insulting??

Dongo: Well what am I supposed to say??

   Me: You say nothing!!!!!You can just not comment on my weight!

Dongo: Oh... ok.

Luckily I like Dongo and we were able to laugh about it, and he has the funniest laugh ever so that helps as well. Seriously though, all the other female volunteers here can relate to me on this one—it's a weekly thing that I get called fat, so much so I expect it and don’t let it get to me. Twice I have been asked if I was pregnant and that one is harder to brush off. I think its the bluntness of it all, if I were not directed towards me I know I would find it comical. When I got my drastic haircut everyone told me to my face that they did not like it and I did not look as good. Also, there is one old lady here that whenever I talk with her she always tries to scratch/pop the mole I have on my forehead. I don’t know how to say "uh no lady that's not coming off" in thimbukushu, so I just mumble 'ka, ka, tjitchu' (no, no, pain). I guess I sort of like that people feel comfortable enough with me to get all up in my buznisss, with all the polite formalities gone.

For some reason I am still super super sensitive about people calling my feet dirty, I am obsessive about them and scrub them raw on the rock I keep in my bathing station twice a day, religiously. It's a natural exfoliation as my friend Christina says. I get so embarrassed when I am caught in town out of the village with dirty feet...just ask my fellow Kavango PCV's they know its a sore subject!

A pretty bad dirty feet day, after walking around doing chores and in the field for the day

Thinyoka

I knew this day would come, I was warned time and again and even given specific training on what to do if the worst happened. Thinyoka-Snake. In my room. I was on my bed watching a movie with my friend Peggy on my laptop and I saw it slither in through the pretty much ginormous cracks that are on both sides of my door. I froze and felt paralyzed with fear. My immediate thought was "I am NOT meant for this life". How would I get rid of it??? If it bit me how would I get to the hospital when it's 10 pm and no one in the village has a car. I screamed for Dongo, my closest neighbor, and I think the noise scared it away so it slithered out on its own. When Dongo came over the three of us tried to find it to kill it, and it was sort of thrilling to be on a snake hunt. Now the excitement is gone and I live in fear the second the sun goes down of any weird noise (peeing at night is extra terrifying.) I am sort of being dramatic because I looked up the snake in the snake/scorpion book Peace Corps provided and it says it was not venomous. But still...I made eye contact with a potentially poisonous African snake creeping into the room I sleep in alone and that image won't ever fade. Good news is that snakes eat mice so that may eliminate that problem. I realize that by posting this entry I run the risk of having no one come visit me but...I wanted to share my fear :)

A different snake found later that week. Green Mamba I believe!

It may appear that my biggest troubles are reptiles and rodents, but that is not true. Trying to see life through the eyes of my kids and really trying to get on their level has been hard pretty much everyday. I feel like I am a fellow Mbukushu, I have even been adopted into the 'Lion' family heritage (sooo much better than being in the Hyena lineage) but no one can ignore that I have more. Even if I have nothing I still have more... That sentence makes sense if you think about it....The differences hit me at random times, like when I throw away a few really, really moldy tomatoes (they go bad in 1.5 days in 100 degree weather and no fridge) and I see kids go in after them to eat. Or it hits me when I ask one of my kids where she could go if she could travel anywhere in the world and she replies 'Andara' which is a slightly bigger village 20 km east of here. My upbringing was just so drastically different and I find it overwhelming and even depressing at times how privileged I was... am. This blog entry is sort of all over the place but that is probably the best way to think of my life here right now-emotions alllll over the place.

Some kids doing chores and pounding the maize for their porridge

Trial and Error

The previous blog entry was perhaps a little too emotional judging by the influx of emails I received (thank you to everyone by the way) but I was just trying to keep it real, ya know!?!?!? My last two weeks were better and more productive, and I know I have to cut myself a little slack. I have to take failures less personally, be more accepting of the laid back culture here. I am sort of starting to get the hang of things...like it is a rule of thumb that no two things can happen simultaneously between any two groups of people, no matter the gender, demographic or if they are spaced 8 hours apart. My woman's group, geared for young mothers, I am especially excited about. This group, however, took a 3 week hiatus because I kept scheduling it on days that would never work. In the last two weeks there were two funerals, and since this is the only activity I have seen thus far that gives out food (usually a goat or cow is sacrificed) a lot of people show up for them and they can last up to 3 days.

funeral procession line through the village on the way to the river

The contrast of the pace of life between Namibia and America is very apparent when I read emails from my sister. She gets to work by 8 am at the latest, will have two big meetings and a conference call to Brazil before lunch then stays late to finish up. Yesterday my organization committee told me they could not meet at 3:30 due to a school parents meeting that was scheduled for 10:30 that morning and would maybe take 45 minutes. The concept that time is money is not practiced here, because in the village no money comes from work. For a population of 900 the only source of employment is the school, which has 10 teachers and one cleaner on payroll. If I ever get completely adjusted to the speed of life here I have no clue how I will survive back in the US, I will probably get hit by a bus from walking too slow. Another example to show the time difference; every Sunday by sunrise a bell is rung to let the village know that it is the day for church, is that the main telltale sign to let people know what day it is??

When I did meet with the woman's group it was great. We discussed what positive changes could be made in the village, ways we can we target the in-school youth to reduce teenage pregnancy, threw out the idea of a community garden to improve their children's nutrition, but then the rest of the time we just chit chatted about boy troubles. If it wasn’t for us sitting on mats made out of straw, the gossip only in Thimbukushu and sweating in 100+ degree weather it felt like it could have been my with my friends in America, almost.

some of the women from our new group!

6 Month Slump

I have to confess that I have been a total Peace Corps snob, a cocky, naive newbie. This whole time I have silently commended myself on how strong and resilient I have been with the ability to bounce back from all the set-backs thrown my way. It was only a matter of time before I came crashing down to the reality of where I am. It hit me yesterday as I started crying over my morning oatmeal, the day hadn’t even started yet! I was sitting in my kitchen, surrounded with termites slowly gnawing away at the sticks holding up my hut with the humming noise so loud I felt like they were in my ear, going over my chores and general worries for the day— how I need to wash my dishes, but it's so hot to fetch water, how many kids will show up for my program that afternoon, when will I have the time to hitch hike to the nearest fax machine 40 km away to send my urgent fax? Also, the mouse poop I found on my bed that morning was a concern, but not enough to tip me over the edge.

All it took was a text from my counterpart and translator saying she could not attend either of my programs that day. Since this has happened many times before, it should not have affected me so drastically. However, after a whole month of working completely alone and feeling as I was failing completely alone, I was fed up with another bail out. At that moment I realized how lonely I felt and how nothing in my new life could comfort me like back home could. My culture clashed so much with those of my co-workers and even those I consider my friends were not able to relate to what I am going through. My older friend, Rebeka, stopped by and saw me upset. She asked in Thimbukushu, “you are sad?” and I responded “yes I am sad." Then neither of us could communicate anything else in the other's language, so all she could do offer me a hug. That was the extend of my comforting and it helped, but it was only a quick fix.

This blog entry is not going to end with a heroic tale where I turned my bad day into a day full of productivity and enthusiasm like a super star volunteer. Instead, I bought a liter sized cool drink before 11 am and hung around with the meme's all afternoon. The day was a rude awakening reminding me that this job is not meant to be easy, there will be little fails and there will be big epic fails but then maybe the small successes in between will be more rewarding.

These are pictures of my friend, Rebeka and Felicia, who offer me hugs if they see I am upset. They are grown women who like to dress like twins! 

Every time I see them it makes me smile and I have to snap a pic because they are grown woman that dress like twins!

twins--alllll the time, sort of weird but adorable as well!